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cbarber
Posted: Tuesday, November 03, 2009 2:25:44 PM report if inappropriate
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I am taking my son to the dentist today at 4 and i am so nervous. he is 4 almost five and has never been to a dentist. he has several cavities that needs to be dealt with. I am a nervous momma. What has other moms done to get past the fear and nervousness.
chippy66
Posted: Tuesday, November 03, 2009 2:47:11 PM report if inappropriate
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cbarber wrote:
I am taking my son to the dentist today at 4 and i am so nervous. he is 4 almost five and has never been to a dentist. he has several cavities that needs to be dealt with. I am a nervous momma. What has other moms done to get past the fear and nervousness.


If you have a good dentist, your son will love going to the dentist. They make it very fun for kids. As for you -- take a Valium. Let us know how things turn out. Do not worry. Doctor visits for kids are not like they were years and years ago. He will look forward to his next visit, I guarantee it. Dancing Dancing Winking
cbarber
Posted: Tuesday, November 03, 2009 2:50:39 PM report if inappropriate
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If you have a good dentist, your son will love going to the dentist. They make it very fun for kids. As for you -- take a Valium. Let us know how things turn out. Do not worry. Doctor visits for kids are not like they were years and years ago. He will look forward to his next visit, I guarantee it. Dancing Dancing Winking [/quote]
thank you Chippy 66. I will let you know how it goes tomorrow. i know he will be fine but you can't help but worry. thanks again
susie1130
Posted: Tuesday, November 03, 2009 3:13:38 PM report if inappropriate
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I use a pediatric dentist, they use sedation for the wee ones. Makes it easier on everyone and they don't develop a fear of the dentists because they feel no pain. Then they give them toys and popsicles! Now, I still get a little nervous but, that's normal for any mother.
Raeli
Posted: Tuesday, November 03, 2009 6:16:59 PM report if inappropriate
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Let Grandma take him......you stay home and take a nap.
snappygrandma
Posted: Tuesday, November 03, 2009 6:40:20 PM report if inappropriate
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Raeli, you are too funny!
Susie, we have been missing you! Hope you and your little one are okay.
devia
Posted: Tuesday, November 03, 2009 10:16:15 PM report if inappropriate
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yes wishing you and your son good-luck....Applause yes you might want to take rae's advice.....and susie so-glad to read your-posts....you were missed....Dancing

"smile it's free"!!! "gotta -love-it" !!!!
CAROLINAMODEL
Posted: Wednesday, November 04, 2009 12:22:17 AM report if inappropriate
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Trust me, it will be worse on you then on your son. When my son was young his foot turned it and tripped him. By the time he was 3 he had knocked out the same front tooth numerous times. He had root canals, and other work done on that tooth trying to keep it in place until his perm tooth came in.

I never went back with my son to the "chair" and he never requested me to nor cried for me. The doctor will guide you! Just relax and read a book or if the weather is nice go outside and sit.

Good Luck but if you let the child handle it on his own, he will never fear the dentist. My son is now old enough to drive himself to the dentist and makes his own appts every 6 months.

Remember children learn FEAR from Adults.
devia
Posted: Wednesday, November 04, 2009 8:08:52 AM report if inappropriate
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so-very-true...good advice also...those days are behind me, but i remember them well...Applause Dancing

"smile it's free"!!! "gotta -love-it" !!!!
snappygrandma
Posted: Wednesday, November 04, 2009 7:19:32 PM report if inappropriate
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cbarber, how did you little boy do at the dentist? How did you do?
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